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6 Pieces Of Relationship Advice And How It Relates To Lesbians - Les Talk About It

6 Pieces Of Relationship Advice And How It Relates To Lesbians - Les Talk About It

July 8, 2019

6 Pieces Of Relationship Advice And How It Relates To Lesbians

Les Talk About It Episode: 12 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about popular relationship advice and how it relates to lesbian relationships in this episode of Les Talk About It.

 

In this episode:

  1. Do or say something daily to show your appreciation
  2. Realise that every relationship is worth something
  3. Never take your partner for granted
  4. Remember to take breaks
  5. It’s not what you fight about it’s how you fight
  6. Stop trying to be each other’s everything

 

 

This is the article we are referencing https://greatist.com/play/best-relationship-advice#1

 

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

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Listeners Ask About Relationships - Les Talk About It

Listeners Ask About Relationships - Les Talk About It

July 1, 2019

Listeners Ask About Relationships

Les Talk About It Episode: 11 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk answer listener questions and comments in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • How do you find balance and not lose yourself?
  • Money management tips
  • Your house, my house or our house?

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

How To Keep Your Relationship Safe From Family - Les Talk About It

How To Keep Your Relationship Safe From Family - Les Talk About It

June 10, 2019

How To Keep Your Relationship Safe From Family

Les Talk About It Episode: 10 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about How To Keep Your Relationships Safe From Your Family in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • Signs that your family is interfering in your relationship
    • Putting unrealistic demands on your time an attention
    • You feel responsible for your relatives emotional wellbeing
    • Keeping secrets from your family
    • Relying on your parents for money
    • Relying on your family too much
    • When your parents expect you to check in with them about everything
    • Violating your privacy
    • Being competitive
    • Indulging your poor decisions
    • Your parents overshare personal details about their own lives
  • How to handle the problem

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

 

How To Find Your Soulmate - Les Talk About It

How To Find Your Soulmate - Les Talk About It

June 3, 2019

How To Find Your Soulmate

Les Talk About It Episode: 9 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about How To Find Your Soulmate in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • The problem with dating sites
  • What a study showed about compatibility in partners
  • The mathematical formula to help you find that elusive person to settle down with

 

Stay tuned for the bloopers at the end!

 

Study referenced here

 

Book we referenced

The Mathematics of Love by Hannah Fry

Available In Audiobook Yes, narrated by Hannah Fry

Synopsis

In this must-have for anyone who wants to better understand their love life, a mathematician pulls back the curtain and reveals the hidden patterns-from dating sites to divorce, sex to marriage-behind the rituals of love. .

The roller coaster of romance is hard to quantify; defining how lovers might feel from a set of simple equations is impossible. But that doesn't mean that mathematics isn't a crucial tool for understanding love. .

Love, like most things in life, is full of patterns. And mathematics is ultimately the study of patterns-from predicting the weather to the fluctuations of the stock market, the movement of planets or the growth of cities. These patterns twist and turn and warp and evolve just as the rituals of love do. .

In The Mathematics of Love, Dr. Hannah Fry takes the reader on a fascinating journey through the patterns that define our love lives, applying mathematical formulas to the most common yet complex questions pertaining to love: What's the chance of finding love? What's the probability that it will last? How do online dating algorithms work, exactly? Can game theory help us decide who to approach in a bar? At what point in your dating life should you settle down?

From evaluating the best strategies for online dating to defining the nebulous concept of beauty, Dr. Fry proves-with great insight, wit, and fun-that math is a surprisingly useful tool to negotiate the complicated, often baffling, sometimes infuriating, always interesting, mysteries of love.

 

Get this audiobook on Amazon (US, Germany and Canada) here https://amzn.to/2YZV4xQ

 

Get this audiobook Amazon UK here https://amzn.to/2KcgHqI

 

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

 

The 3 Stages Of  Relationships - Les Talk About It

The 3 Stages Of Relationships - Les Talk About It

May 27, 2019

The 3 Stages Of  Relationships

Les Talk About It Episode: 8 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about The 3 Stages Of  Relationships in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • What are the 3 stages
  • Which is the most difficult stage
  • Why you argue a lot during one stage
  • How to get through and keep the relationship intact

 

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Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

Teaching Children To Have Good Relationships - Les Talk About It

Teaching Children To Have Good Relationships - Les Talk About It

May 20, 2019

Teaching Children To Have Good Relationships

Les Talk About It Episode: 7 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about Teaching Children To Have Good Relationships in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  1. Define and Model a good relationship
  2. Explain what an unhealthy relationship is
  3. Teach them to communicate
  4. Teach them to love and know themselves
  5. Defining boundaries
  6. Making them aware of digital abuse
  7. Asking for help

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

Gender Roles In Relationships - Les Talk About It

Gender Roles In Relationships - Les Talk About It

May 13, 2019

Gender Roles In Relationships

Les Talk About It Episode: 6 of 12 of the Relationship Season

In this episode of Les Talk About It, join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about Gender Roles In Relationships.

In this episode:

  • Gender roles in homosexual couples vs heterosexual couples
  • Why communication is vital
  • A uniquely Swedish thing
  • Why some homosexual couples will revert to traditional gender roles once they have kids
  • How trans couples divide chores
  • Survey of gender roles in heterosexual couples in 1975 vs 2000

This is the article I was referencing

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

How To Improve Your EQ - Les Talk About It

How To Improve Your EQ - Les Talk About It

May 6, 2019

How To Improve Your Emotional Intelligence

Les Talk About It Episode: 5 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about How To Improve Your Emotional Intelligence in this episode of Les Talk About It.

The 6 areas that help you improve your emotional intelligence and how to:

  1. Reduce negative emotions
  2. Stay cool and manage stress
  3. Be assertive and express difficult emotions
  4. Stay proactive, not reactive in the face of a difficult person
  5. Bounce back from adversity
  6. Express intimate emotions in close personal relationships

 

BONUS for Patrons - Hear about what Dr John Gottman calls bidding in order to make relationships stronger

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Find the first episode of EQ here

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

 

Emotional Intelligence The Key To Happiness - Les Talk About It

Emotional Intelligence The Key To Happiness - Les Talk About It

April 29, 2019

Emotional Intelligence The Key To Happiness

Les Talk About It Episode: 4 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about Emotional Intelligence The Key To Happiness in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • Where Emotional Intelligence started
  • What is Emotional Intelligence
  • What does Emotional Intelligence allow us to do
  • The skills that come with high EQ
  • How to tell is someone has high EQ

 

PATRON EXCLUSIVE - There is a version of this podcast that is exclusive to Patrons and it includes a quiz to help you tell if you have high or low EQ. Become a Patron here and you will get exclusive content PLUS You will help us grow

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

It’s not them, it’s you - Les Talk About It

It’s not them, it’s you - Les Talk About It

April 22, 2019

It’s not them, it’s you

Les Talk About It Episode: 3 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about when relationships fail it’s not them, it’s you - well, sort of. What we mean is that going into a relationship as a whole person is the best way to have a happy one.

In this episode:

  • What it means to actually be a ‘whole person’
  • Why it’s important to be a ‘whole person’ before getting into a relationship
  • How do you know if you are a whole person
  • How you can be whole and still be figuring yourself out
  • How to become a whole person
  • The four questions you can ask yourself to help you gain self awareness
  • What you can physically do right now to become happier with yourself
  • Why appreciation is vital

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

The Magic Ratio For A Happy Relationship - Les Talk About It

The Magic Ratio For A Happy Relationship - Les Talk About It

April 15, 2019

The Magic Ratio For A Happy Relationship

Les Talk About It Episode: 2 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Sheena and Tamara in this episode as they talk about the magic ratio for a happy relationship.

In this podcast they discuss

  • How two men could predict whether or not a marriage would last
  • What to do while arguing in order to ensure a happy marriage
  • The four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse
  • The herd of ponies for the happy marriage
  • Raising children to believe in themselves
  • Is there a point when it’s too much positivity?

 

Find the Love Languages Episode here

 

Articles referenced in this podcast can be found here

The study by Dr Gottman and Robert Levenson

 

The four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse

 

Is it possible to praise your children too much by Christine Carter

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.

 

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

Discovering Your Love Language - Les Talk About It

Discovering Your Love Language - Les Talk About It

April 8, 2019

Discovering Your Love Language

Les Talk About It Episode: 1 of 12 of the Relationship Season

Join Tamara and Sheena as they talk about Discovering Your Love Language in this episode of Les Talk About It.

In this episode:

  • What are the 5 Love languages
  • The most controversial and misunderstood love language
  • How your love language affects your relationship
  • How Tamara and Sheena’s love languages differ
  • What love languages mean for your relationship

The book we discuss

The 5 Love Languages by Dr Garry Chapman

Publisher Northfield Publishing

Available in audiobook Yes, narrated by the author

Synopsis

- Over 11 million copies sold

#1 New York Times Bestseller for 8 years running

- Now celebrating its 25th anniversary

Simple ideas, lasting love

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life?

In the #1 New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages, you’ll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman’s proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner—starting today.

The 5 Love Languages is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships today, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work.

Includes the Couple's Personal Profile assessment so you can discover your love language and that of your loved one.

 

Get your copy on Amazon

This link works for US, UK, Canada and Europe

 

FIND THE TEST HERE

 

Les Talk About It Series: Relationships

Relationships are important for humans. We need them to survive, never mind thrive. In this series we delve into relationships and break down some statistics and realities because, let’s face it, most us just muddle through and don’t necessarily have the skillset to rally make a relationship work.  

About The Hosts

Sheena comes from a media background and in 2014 she started The Lesbian Review, a website dedicated to reviewing the best lesbian books and movies. In 2016 A podcast channel seemed like a natural progression and so she started The Lesbian Talk Show

Sheena discovered lesbian fiction in her late teens and it helped her with her coming out process, something for which she will always be grateful. 

Tamara is a marketing professional and has branched out into design and photography. Her natural love for research and learning meant that she was the perfect podcast partner when Sheena wanted to start Les Talk About It. (Well, that and the fact that Tamara is married to Sheena.) 

 

You can find all of the Les Talk About It episodes here 

 

Contact Sheena And Tamara 

Email

Website

Facebook group

Facebook page

Tamara’s Podcaster Profile

Sheena’s Podcaster Profile

 

If you love what we do, consider becoming a Patron - you get exclusive content and you help us grow

Marriage, Rights, and the Political Climate — Coffee Break With KA and Dana

Marriage, Rights, and the Political Climate — Coffee Break With KA and Dana

February 18, 2019

Marriage, Rights, and the Political Climate

Coffee Break With KA & Dana: Meaningful Conversations From A Lesbian Perspective

 

As LGBT, we battled for the right to marry, convinced that given the opportunity our marriages would be strong. And when that decision came down, we floated on a cloud of euphoria. In this episode, KA's wife, Kay, stands in for Dana, discussing:

  • Marriage
  • LGBT and WOMEN's Rights
  • Political Climate

KA is an author of lesbian fiction with degrees in counseling, psychology, and social work. As KA Moll, she writes stories about lesbians, burdened by past trauma, who find healing in the love of a soul mate. As Cade Brogan, she writes thrillers.

Dana is an avid reader, a recovering alcoholic, a fisher-woman, and a graduate of the school of hard knocks.

As co-hosts, they're quite the duo. Connect with them online at www.kamoll.com 

TODAY'S CO-HOST: KA's wife, Kay. She's a retired school psychologist who enjoys beta reading for KA, watching CNN, reading history, presidential biographies, and mysteries, and doing crossword puzzles.

Music in this episode (Lucky Way) is licensed for use in various multimedia applications by Melody Loops.